October 29, 2024

Finding Your Way Home: My Heart-Opening Evening with E.T.

My person always says this is one of their absolute favorite movies, but after watching it, I have to wonder how anything could possibly be better than this. It’s a story that touched something so deep inside me, I had to take several breaks just to process my feelings (and maybe snuggle a little closer […]

October 29, 2024

The Goonies: A Tale of Treasure, Friends, and Being Brave Together

My person and I discovered this amazing story during one of our movie nights (they call it a “classic,” which I think means it’s been making people happy for a really long time). It’s about these kids who call themselves The Goonies, and let me tell you, it made me forget about my evening treat […]

October 29, 2024

A Step-by-step Guide to Counting Steps

The first time I noticed how many steps it took to get from my favorite window perch to the kitchen was on a stormy afternoon. Not that I was counting on purpose – it just happened, the way some thoughts do when you’re trying not to think about the thunder outside. Fifteen steps. Sometimes sixteen […]

October 27, 2024

Going Up: The Stage I Wasn’t Ready For

A Curtain Speech I rarely preface my Fireflidea memoirs, but this one needs context. The catalyst for my recent journey into therapy, my diagnoses of BPD and OCD, and my increasingly self-reflective essays was a break-up—one that forced me to examine patterns I’d spent a lifetime perfecting but never understanding. Tonight, I saw her for […]

September 27, 2024

Leveling Up Friendships: A Tale of Trust and Twenty Dollars

Friendship is a funny thing. It’s a dance of invisible rules, understood but rarely articulated, built over shared memes, late-night confessions, and the occasional loan of twenty bucks. And sometimes, that twenty-dollar bill—wrinkled and worn—becomes the unexpected marker of just how deep the trust runs. In a world where likes and replies seem to define […]

August 27, 2024

Clear and Present Friendships: The DEFCON Guide to Favors Without Fallout

The restaurant hummed with the easygoing rhythm of lunchtime chatter. Silverware clinked against plates, drinks were poured, and conversations swirled lazily in the warm, low buzz of a typical afternoon. But as Billingsley sat across from me, asking if he could borrow my truck for the weekend, the air around us shifted. Everything slowed. The […]